Confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself. Arrogance in this comparison is having unmerited confidence—believing something or someone is capable or correct when they are not.
” Self- confidence is the first requisite to great undertaking.”
Self- confidence is the force of a strong self- belief , a true, unshakeable confidence.
The belief that success is hard to obtain has hardened across the generations and only a few who are successful continue to be so and those who are not continue to fail. This has resulted into a poor self-confidence and self- esteem which continues to run most people’s lives in the opposite direction.
Most people have accepted that fact that they cannot succeed and they prove it by being stuck where they are for their entire lives, full of uncontrollable emotions and lack of any positive energy. They are not living their lives – they are just acting like machines doing their routine work.
The problem is that they are ones who are making all this happen all the time, designing and creating their own lives in a negative way and then blaming it on others, external conditions and circumstances.
In order to get the results you want in your life, the shift must happen inside you.
The key is to take CONTROL – control of yourself, your emotions , your finances, your relationships, your health and your mind, even of those around you and the things that happen to you. When you know that you are in control, you don’t need to worry about anything. Everything that happens does so because you have decided to let it happen.
Why Self- Confidence?
It is my belief that self-confidence is the factor which determines what level, quality and kind of life you are going to spend.
With an unshakeable self- confidence, you will becomes a conscious designer of your own life. No matter how many obstacles come your way or difficulties try to sway you, your unshakeable faith in yourself will keep you calm, certain and powerful in the face of everything.
With greater confidence , you will be able to set higher goals for yourself and actually achieve them!
With greater self- confidence, you will be able to manage your unconscious conflicts and smooth up your life.
With an unstoppable self-confidence, you will always be full of everlasting energy. you would be able to take massive actions towards your goals and have fun while you accomplish each and every goal you set for yourself.
What is NOT Confidence !
Confidence is not a quality. It’s not something you have or possess. It’s not a talent.
Confidence is not arrogance. Arrogance is simply an egoistic attitude towards the world, usually accompanied by other negative thoughts about oneself and others like a deep- rooted insecurity about something or a superiority complex.
Confidence is different from self- esteem. Self-esteem means ‘appreciating your own worth and importance’- and it helps you to cope better with the challenges of life. It’s a belief in your own self- worth and importance.